A college campus is one of the best areas to observe culture – or at least, the culture of the American youth. Almost every preconceived notion that non-Americans hold can be seen on campus. For one, American’s treat alcohol differently than other cultures; we drink to get drunk. I told a friend of mine that I never wanted to experience drunkenness, and he immediately said, “So you’re never going to drink?” He went on to say that there was no point in drinking if you do not get drunk. Yet, other people who I’ve talked to from other countries say that being drunk isn’t what they aim for when they drink. A friend of mine whose fiancé is from the Ukraine said that even on college campuses students rarely drink to the point of becoming drunk.
This generation of Americans is also very open about sexuality. Often I overhear peers talking about past sexual experiences, or even ones that occurred just over the weekend. While in line at the P.O.D, a young man was talking on his cell phone very loudly about a recent sexual encounter – using explicit slang terms – and even commented “… Yeah, and now everyone in this store it looking at me like I’m a dumbass…” This is very different from older generations who view sexuality as a taboo subject for casual conversation. Americans are much less modest (now) about sexuality than foreign cultures.
The way that my friends and I interact is unique in several ways. We constantly make fun of each other in ways that would normally be considered rude. We have nicknames for each other; one friend is “Wikipedia” because he seems to know everything about everything, while another friend is “H.C” or “Honors choir,” because she claims to have been in honors choir even though she always sings poorly when she is with us. This is somewhat unique to our group because, with other groups of friends that I have been part of, this name-calling would have been taken as offensive rather than as a joke.
We are also what my friend Dakar refers to as “cool nerds.” The majority of our conversations relate to Pokemon, Dragonball Z (or some other anime), Dungeons and Dragons or video games. Most nights, we get together to play a video game or watch a movie (lately it’s been the Blade trilogy). Our group is unique because we’re ethnically diverse and very different when it comes to personalities and outside interests, yet we always come together to do things or just to talk.
Despite the fact that my friends and I like to spend time together, we still go off and do our own things. When they go out on weekends, I stay back. One of our friends decided to fast for Lent; during the daylight hours, he didn’t eat. Then, when the sun set, he ate one vegan meal. Even though we are all Christian and observe Lent, only he chose to practice the full fast.





